Is there a linkage issue? Anything slip or get loose in the junk that attaches your shifter to the t-case (IOW, the linkage)?? that happens on 60's a lot, usually they fall out of 4WD though, not in.
I know, I'm not much help.. I'm just a button pusher.
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