Do you have the service manual for the bike? There's a wiring diagram in it that might give you some ideas...
...it doesn't look to me like the factory wiring has a relay...
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2F "Brahma" + Lockright, tach, Warn 8274, FJ60 Power Steering,
soon to lose the Sanden OBA
to go back to factory emissions
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