Yeah the fuel pump relay is on the passenger side above the computer behind the dash. Mine hangs right next to my 5VZ ECU so I just unplug it and take it with me. As soon as I get my member status back (dues paid finally, and thanks Jeff!) I'll post up what I've got going on. It's simple and at least I like to think its clever.
"-1988 Red Hilux Standard frame, X-tra cab, locked F&R, 5.29's, 35" tires and a SAS. In Moab
"-1988, 1999 3.4L, Supercharged, 2.1" URD pulley, URD 7th injector, 2 1/2" Magnaflow exhaust, TO DO: lift, locker.
"Did you know the IFS was designed by Hitler himself to make the life of 4WD owners tough? Yeah, it's true, he saw a vision of the Devil and he told him to do it." -DaveInDenver