Similar to Nakman and Fishy, my wife doesn't really enjoy wheeling. Anything hard core just stresses her out, and she hates shelf roads. However, she does very much like the guys in the club as well as the wives and girlfriends she's met. She's always glad to attend the parties and picnics.
We used to do a family camping run called the "Ghost Town Run" that involved exploring old ghost towns with easy/moderate wheeling. The nice thing about that run was there were many women and kids on the run. In more recent years, I've missed some of the family camping runs because we have so many summertime kid activities like swim team.
Our kids are 10 and 12, so our monthly meeting nights are an opportunity for me to see friends and enjoy a cold beverage. I've been a member 14 years, and I don't think she has ever attended a meeting. She would be bored anyway.